OOOOOO.... this is a touchy subject (pardon the pun). But how many of us have checked out a younger man and thought, if only I were 20 years younger? Let's face it, younger men are hot! I've always prided myself in enjoying the company of older men but lately, if any of the older men have "anything going on" they're being snatched up my younger women!
Perhaps our era of absentee fathers have bred a generation of young women who are looking for father figures in their boyfriends and husbands! For whatever reason, this event is pushing younger men and older women closer together. With older women looking better and better these days, these young men don't seem to mind.
Lately, I've had a number of younger men ask me out. I've been telling them that I don't date younger men because I believed it was the right thing to do. Well, the last time a young man asked me this question, I was trying to set him up with my daughter. He didn't like my daughter (and she didn't like him). Well, he asked me if younger men ever ask ME out. Now, although I didn't consider dating this young man, this incident brought to mind other times I've been asked, said no, then walked away quickly (biting my hand in secret so I wouldn't focus on how aroused I had just gotten).
I've changed my opinion on dating younger men. They are no different than their older counterparts and they are more sure of what they want. The only thing you have to worry about is that they're fickle (although more genuine). If a younger man likes you, he likes you. If he doesn't, he doesn't. There are other reasons that I will get into as I begin charting my experiences, but from my previous knowledge, I see pros and cons in both.
Perhaps our era of absentee fathers have bred a generation of young women who are looking for father figures in their boyfriends and husbands! For whatever reason, this event is pushing younger men and older women closer together. With older women looking better and better these days, these young men don't seem to mind.
Lately, I've had a number of younger men ask me out. I've been telling them that I don't date younger men because I believed it was the right thing to do. Well, the last time a young man asked me this question, I was trying to set him up with my daughter. He didn't like my daughter (and she didn't like him). Well, he asked me if younger men ever ask ME out. Now, although I didn't consider dating this young man, this incident brought to mind other times I've been asked, said no, then walked away quickly (biting my hand in secret so I wouldn't focus on how aroused I had just gotten).
I've changed my opinion on dating younger men. They are no different than their older counterparts and they are more sure of what they want. The only thing you have to worry about is that they're fickle (although more genuine). If a younger man likes you, he likes you. If he doesn't, he doesn't. There are other reasons that I will get into as I begin charting my experiences, but from my previous knowledge, I see pros and cons in both.
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