Wednesday, March 30, 2011

GETTING YOUR COUGAR ON....!

OOOOOO.... this is a touchy subject (pardon the pun).  But how many of us have checked out a younger man and thought, if only I were 20 years younger? Let's face it, younger men are hot! I've always prided myself in enjoying the company of older men but lately, if any of the older men have "anything going on" they're being snatched up my younger women!

Perhaps our era of absentee fathers have bred a generation of young women who are looking for father figures in their boyfriends and husbands! For whatever reason, this event is pushing younger men and older women closer together. With older women looking better and better these days, these young men don't seem to mind.

Lately, I've had a number of younger men ask me out. I've been telling them that I don't date younger men because I believed it was the right thing to do. Well, the last time a young man asked me this question, I was trying to set him up with my daughter. He didn't like my daughter (and she didn't like him). Well, he asked me if younger men ever ask ME out.  Now, although I didn't consider dating this young man, this incident brought to mind other times I've been asked, said no, then walked away quickly (biting my hand in secret so I wouldn't focus on how aroused I had just gotten).

I've changed my opinion on dating younger men. They are no different than their older counterparts and they are more sure of what they want. The only thing you have to worry about is that they're fickle (although more genuine). If a younger man likes you, he likes you. If he doesn't, he doesn't.  There are other reasons that I will get into as I begin charting my experiences, but from my previous knowledge, I see pros and cons in both.

Lookout world, here I come!
This is only the beginning!
  

WHY ARE WE ALL SO UPTIGHT?

This is an unusual post for me because I'm usually very serious in my posts.  But lately I finding myself wondering why we are all so political.  Don't misunderstand, I don't mean in the sense of being republicans or democrats but, not many people are having FUN anymore.  In the past, I'd preach on achieving your goals while having fun doing it and their were many followers of that same theory. But lately, people feel the need to be melancholy about too many subjects. 

Recently, I joined a group in support of encouraging people to reduce, reuse, and recycle. I'm noticing that the group is "hell bent" on making this a political event. They want to say that democrats want to clean the air and republicans want to keep the air polluted.  My suggestion that republicans also want our air to be clean fell on deaf ears. I stated in my opinion that I don't think we should try to sway politcal preference by pretending republicans want dirty air!  That's ridiculous!

This is only one example of how we are getting un-funny (for lack of a better word) and taking too many "things" to the extreme.

As for me, I've just decided to put on my fun coat and getting my happy back.  If the world is going to "helena handbasket", mine is gonna be an Easter basket filled with lots of goodies!  If I can't enjoy saving the world, then I'm going die trying (to enjoy saving the world, that is).  Life is too short to be so serious about everything. And since my life isn't a dress rehearsal, I want mine to me funfilled! Anybody with me? Let me know.

Me having fun, come with me!